Every time the issue of pornography and relationships comes up, a debate ensues. In part, it is because there are dissenting opinions on the matter from both sides. Some argue that looking at porno can have negative effects on a partnership. On the other hand, there are those who say it is good for a relationship. All of this leaves many wondering, whom to believe or what side is right. In truth, it all depends on the situation since not all couples are the same. You also have to consider those who watch pornography on their own. That means they keep it hidden from their partner.